When the right decisions are made long before your wedding day...You get to spend it where you belong:
Fully present.
Questions, second opinions, difficult conversations, unexpected challenges...You won't navigate them alone.
You'll have someone in your corner from beginning to end.
Beautiful isn't enough.
Every design choice should tell your story, reflect your personality, and create an experience your guests immediately recognize as yours.
You won't be left sorting through endless inspiration or conflicting opinions.
Every recommendation is filtered through your vision, values, and goals.
Your budget isn't about spending more.
It's about spending where it matters most to you.
Together, we'll align your investment with your priorities—not someone else's checklist.
Before recommending a single venue or vendor, we'll define what matters most—so every decision that follows has purpose, not pressure.
Wedding planning has never offered more options.
More inspiration.
More advice.
More opinions.
And somehow, all of those choices have made planning feel more overwhelming—not less.
I don't believe you need another checklist.
I believe you need a way to make decisions you can feel good about.
That's why we begin with clarity before committing, direction before designing, and intention before investing.
Clarity does more than make planning easier. It creates a wedding in which every decision belongs to the same story.
Before recommendations or design concepts, we understand your relationship, your tastes, your story, and the qualities that make this celebration yours.
Not every decision deserves equal weight. We identify what matters most so your attention and investment go where they will have the greatest effect.
Every recommendation is filtered through what you believe, how you want to host, and what feels honest to you—not what the wedding industry says you should want.
We translate that foundation into the atmosphere, pacing, design, hospitality, and moments your guests will ultimately encounter.
For couples who want an experienced partner to architect the wedding from its foundation forward. Whether or not you have selected a venue, we establish the financial, logistical and creative framework your celebration requires, then lead each interconnected decision with intention.
We develop a distinct design concept rooted in your story, priorities and sense of style, then serve as the creative director guiding its expression across the full experience. You remain meaningfully involved while we bring the vision, vendor team and planning strategy into alignment so the result feels cohesive, considered and unmistakably yours. You're not handing us your wedding to plan for you. You're gaining an experienced strategic advisor, creative director and production partner to build it with you.
For couples who have already established their wedding’s financial, logistical and creative foundation but want expert guidance to strengthen and complete it. We step into the process as a strategic partner, identifying gaps, bringing clarity to what remains and helping you make the decisions that will carry your plans forward.
Building upon the creative direction already taking shape, we refine the visual language, evaluate how individual choices work together and help preserve cohesion through execution. You maintain an active role while gaining the structure, perspective and professional oversight needed to realize your vision with greater confidence and intention. You're not starting over. You're gaining an experienced strategic partner to strengthen what you've built and help carry it thoughtfully through completion.
One of the first questions couples ask is, "How much does wedding planning cost?"
Planning isn't one-size-fits-all. The level of support you need depends on your wedding's complexity, timeline, guest experience, and where you are in the planning process.
That said, I also believe you deserve enough information to know whether we're likely to be the right fit.
Most Birdcage & Blushers couples invest $75,000–$100,000+ in their wedding weekend (based on a wedding size of 100-150 guests).
Planning engagements are a five-figure investment, with proposals customized to your wedding's scope, complexity, and the level of partnership you're looking for.
The goal isn't to spend more. I believe the goal is to spend intentionally. My role isn't to encourage bigger budgets; it's to help you make confident decisions that support the experience you want to create.
Planning proposals are customized, and full-service engagements are designed for couples making a significant investment in both their wedding and the planning experience.
The best way to determine the right level of support is through a conversation about your vision, priorities, and the experience you want to create.