Bespoke Wedding Planning in Chicago
Expert Guidance.
Authentic Design.
A Day Everyone Remembers.
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Elevated, authentic weddings for refined couples who want to be fully present on their wedding day.
Your wedding should be stylish, stress-free, and deeply personal— designed around your story, not someone else’s script.
So, swap the ballroom venue for an art museum, skip the cake cutting entirely, and cut your wedding party from 20 to two.
There is no right way to get married—just your way.
Whatever that is, Birdcage & Blushers will make sure your way is planned, designed, and produced to perfection.
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For the refined couple who knows that meaning is the new luxury
You have high standards — not just for aesthetics, but for experience. You value thoughtfulness, hospitality, and design that tells a story.
You want an elevated wedding planning experience — where every choice has purpose, and every moment flows beautifully.
That’s what we do best.
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The Heart Behind Every Celebration
Care
Guidance Rooted in Partnership
From our first conversation to your last dance, you’ll feel cared for every step of the way. My role is to anticipate your needs, simplify decisions, and advocate for you, so you can step into your wedding with complete peace of mind.
Creativity
Design With Meaning
Your celebration won’t come from a template. Together, we’ll craft a wedding design that reflects your story, your values, and your style — refined, authentic, and distinctly yours.
Calm
The Confidence to Be Fully Present
Calm is the greatest gift I bring to your wedding planning process and your wedding day. With every detail handled behind the scenes, you’ll feel the confidence to let go, soak it all in, and be completely present with your people.
“She made the whole process so much easier, even from afar. On our wedding day, everything flowed so seamlessly that we were able to just enjoy and be in the moment.” — Bride Lynne
You First Step Towards a Seamless Celebration
Curious how to get started with wedding planning? Designed for couples who want clarity as they begin their wedding journey. Whether you’re planning from near or far, this Starter Kit gives you the confidence to take your first steps with ease.
Wedding Planning Services Tailored to You
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Elevated Ever After (Full-Service)
Every detail handled, every decision guided, every moment yours. Comprehensive planning and design so you can be fully present from engagement to last dance.
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Vision To Vows (Partial Planning)
Your vision, refined and brought to life. Expert guidance to align your plans, elevate your design, and orchestrate the final details seamlessly.
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Ever After Elsewhere (Destination)
Your story celebrated anywhere. Full-scale planning and design across the globe, with logistics and events managed so you can simply enjoy the experience.
“I can use three words to describe Alyson as my wedding planner: advocate, passionate, and fixer. She truly stepped up as an advocate as we made (many) tough decisions. She is passionate about providing the wedding experience of your dreams…” — Bride Chastinee
A Wedding Planner Who Cares
I help couples design weddings that feel effortless, intentional, and completely their own — blending creativity, organization, and care every step of the way
Chic & Sophisticated
Our portfolio is packed with sophisticated and deeply personal weddings. The only thing you won’t find in there is your perfect wedding, because each event we plan is completely unique. Browse our portfolio to get inspired.
Celebrating What Brought You Here
Your wedding isn’t just a day—it’s the culmination of your journey and the start of something new! We’re here to honor that with intention and expert support that keeps you grounded through it all. If you’re ready to feel held, heard, and hyped for what’s ahead—we should talk!