Favorite Wedding Movies!

Happy Sunday! There’s nothing like curling up on the couch and having a movie day on a Sunday.  Wedding movies are awesome for getting excited about your own big day, or if you’re just looking to take a break from all the planning.

I don’t know about you, but wedding movies are some of my favorite! Some of my go-to wedding movies include: Bridesmaids (of course!), My Big Fat Greek Wedding, The Best Man, Sex and the City, The Wedding Planner, and Bride Wars just to name a few.

As important as it is to get all your nuptial ducks in a row, it’s also just as important to take a break every now and again! Check out these list via Buzzfeed and Vogue.com for list of some great wedding movies!

Enjoy the rest of your Sunday and have a wonderful week!

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A Magical Five Years: Our Vow Renewal!

HI Birdies! I hope you all had a fabulous weekend! I’m super excited for this post! Today is the day that I share with you all about my vow renewal! For those of you who missed my anniversary post last year, my husband and i decided that we wanted to celebrate our five year wedding anniversary with a vow renewal with our friends and family. We wanted to do this because when we got married, we had a city hall ceremony, which was perfect for us. What was missing was the vows. I had written personal vows and inadvertently left them behind and Luis, well I don’t really know what happened with the vows on his end. Needless to say we did not exchange personal vows, not to mention there were people that missed the ceremony that we would’ve liked to be there. So it was decided! We would renew our vows and recommit our love to one another with all of the most important people in our lives in attendance. The process took a little over a year to plan with venue and vendor hunting. There were definitely some bumps in the road along the way, but the end result was perfect.

First we had to pick a place! Luis is a pretty easy going guy so it was mostly up to me to narrow down places that would be suitable. I really wanted something glamorous. We looked at restaurants, venues, and boutique hotels, and decided on the Ivy Hotel in downtown Chicago. It was intimate, but modern and perfect. After finding the venue all of the other vendors fell into place: DJ, Planner, Photographer, etc.

Sometimes when you’re planning a wedding, shit happens. Our “shit” was that I had experienced a job change where i took a minimal pay-cut to be somewhere where i would be happier and have more growth. Unfortunately the “minimal pay-cut” added up to the point where when crunching the numbers we could no longer afford all that we wanted to do. Devastated, we had to cancel the venue and the few vendors that we booked. I even considered returning my dress. I’ll admit, there were tears. Luckily I have the best husband in the world, who assured me that everything would work out.

After drying my tears, and pulling up my big girl pants (sweat pants, ha!) I was struck with the determination to find a place within our new means. Just when I was about to throw my hands up in defeat, I decide to reach out to one of our favorite restaurants, Mindy’s Hot Chocolate in Wicker Park. I was thinking to myself, “There’s no chance in hell that this amazing restaurant is going to open before regular business hours for a private group, especially not for less than thousands of dollars”. To my surprise, not only did they do private events, but at a price that we could actually afford! After that, everything fell into place for us. We did super fun custom invites,  confirmed our photographers and coasted through the rest of the process. Everything certainly happens for a reason and we ended up having the perfect day! See some stunning photos from our anniversary shoot with Elena Bazini a week before our anniversary and photos from our actual renewal event with Severin Weddings!

Anniversary Shots Courtesy of Elena Bazini Photography

Location: Winnemac Park

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Custom Designed Invitations Courtesy of The Art In Tara

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Vow Renewal Photography Courtesy of Severin Weddings

Location: Wicker Park

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Thank you to all of the industry professionals that helped make the day spectacular!

Venue: Mindy’s Hot Chocolate

Neighborhood: Wicker Park

Catering: Mindy’s Hot Chocolate

Dress: BHLDN Chicago

Veil and Alterations: Mignonette Bridal

Shoes: The Left Bank

Hair: Robert Jeffrey Hair Studio – Andersonville

Tuxedo: Men’s Warehouse

Flowers: Pistil and Vine

Invitations: The Art In Tara

Anniversary Photography: Elena Bazini

Vow Renewal Photography: Severin Photography

Accommodations: Godfrey Hotel Chicago

Wedding Decor: Flowers 101: In Season

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Happy Sunday Birdies! I hope you’re all relaxing! As I mentioned in a previous post, I’m in the process of trying to find a florist for my big day! Because of this, I’ve become floral-obsessed! A lot of brides may think that flowers is a HUGE wedding day expense. But it doesn’t necessarily have to be. The first step is doing your research. One really great way to save but still have gorgeous flowers is choosing flowers that are in season! Here are some popular wedding flowers and when they are the cheapest!

  • Calla Lily
    • Calla Lilies are generally available year-round. Late winter to early spring is peak season.
  • Dahlia
    • Dahlias are so gorgeous and they come in varying shades. Purple Dahlias are my favorite! They are in season late summer through early fall.
  • Hydrangeas
    • I love Hydrangeas! I love them on their own, and I love using them as a base for arrangements. They come in so many lovely shades as well. They cost of Hydrangeas depends on the color, as the color is contingent upon the season. You’ll find these beauties most abundant July through November
  • Orchids
    • Orchids are gorgeous and so versatile. They aren’t super expensive either. They’re great because they come in varying shades and they are available all year round.
  • Peonies
    • Peonies are so stunning! They are one of my favorites. Peonies are usually mid range to higher end when it comes to cost. Getting them in season will keep the costs lower. They are in season in the springtime.

There are plenty of other flowers out there! My advice is to keep your options open. Planning my vow renewal, I wanted peonies everywhere! But they aren’t in season in August, so they’d be super expensive. So I kept my eyes open for other flowers that we more cost efficient and just as gorgeous! A good florist will be honest with you about what’s feasible in your budget, and suggests other ideas and options that are equally lovely. Check out a more extensive list of flowers and their seasons on the Knot (see link below).

Have a great week and happy planning!

Sources: The Knot Flower Guide

Pinterest Inspirations

Hi Birdies! It’s been a long week, but it’s finally the weekend! I just wanted to tell you about my latest update to my site! I’ve added a link to my Pinterest page so you can keep up with all of my latest inspirations for my vow renewal!

Here you can see all of my ideas and favorite looks! Maybe you’ll find some inspirations for your big day! Happy Pinning!

 

Blushers and Bouquets and Bridesmaids, oh my!

Welcome to Birdcage and Blushers! You know what I love? Weddings! I absolutely love weddings. I love the dresses. I love the flowers. Oh my gosh, and the cakes! But most of all, I just love seeing love. And a wedding is a visual manifestation of that love. I created this blog as an outlet to express my love and fascination with all things wedding related. I’ve worked in the events industry for a couple of years now, originally inspire by planning my very own wedding. I had the pleasure of working with some amazing couples and seeing some amazing weddings. There’s just something about seeing a sincere love between two people from the outside. It’s a beautiful thing. Then when you add the dresses, the flowers, the decor: damn near perfect. And I love every single second of it. I’ve been immersed in the world of weddings and I want to share my love of it with all of you; keep you up on my favorite trends and be a resource for all of you future brides out there. I look forward to sharing with the world and I hope some find it entertaining!